For Virginia flower growers: Sourcing Perennials

I recently shared my favorite seed companies for sourcing annual seeds, so today I wanted to focus on those I’d highly recommend for sourcing perennials, both nationally and locally in central Virginia.

Just as with the seed companies, these companies are ranked as favorites because they provide excellent products and wonderful customer service as well.  They have always been quick to answer questions, quick to ship, and quick to fix any errors that may occur during shipping (which, please note, can easily happen with shipping live plants and they’re prepared to help - at least in my experience when I just send a kind email requesting assistance).

So first up, those you can access from your computer:

Geraniaceace

(photo copyright Geraniaceae)

I’m going to be honest: I have no idea how to pronounce the name of the company, but I do believe the start of it is pronounced like “geranium” since it’s the family of plants they specialize in. 

Though you may be thinking it’s strange of me to suggest that you buy geraniums, I promise you there’s a whole world outside of the garish red ones normally found in every garden center - and the scented varieties are wonderful to weave into arrangements. 

However, finding the unique varieties I’d been seeing British growers/designers speak of was proving difficult on our side of the world until I found this site. The owner is incredibly quick to communicate and exhibited great patience with me as I proved to be ignorant about the difference between geraniums and pelargoniums. Here’s a snippet of her message back to me so as to help you before you order: 

“Gardeners frequently call pelargoniums ‘geraniums’ but they are a totally different group in the geranium family. It's pelargoniums that have the greater diversity of leaf shapes. If you look, for example, under Scented Leaf Pelargoniums, you will see what I mean. Hardy geraniums, although they have some variation on how fat or skinny the lobes are, are much more uniform in shape, although the size varies. I have a number of customers who use pelargonium leaves in arrangements.

I’m going to do a whole blog post dedicated to scented Pelargoniums later this year, but until then, have fun perusing the site and thinking about having potted plants that smell like candy apples if you wish.

Bluestone Perennials

This has been one of my tried and true favorite online nurseries for the past few years as they offer small starts of flowering perennials that are often difficult to source locally, including heirloom chrysanthemums. The plants have always been healthy and grown quickly…so don’t be alarmed at the small size of the plants they will ship you. They may not look like much when they arrive, but plant them with care and attention (i.e. water them and water them some more as they become established), and you’ll soon be rewarded with a gorgeous plant that you can enjoy for years to come.

Longfield Gardens

This company offers beautiful bulbs and perennial roots in many favorite varieties. This time of year they offer wonderful summer blooms such as Dahlias, Acidanthera, Lilies and Gladiolus (and often offer free shipping for purchases over $50). Just a quick note of caution to my VA growing friends: They also offer anemones and ranunculus this time of year and label them as “spring planted, summer blooming” but please note that it is not advised to plant those in the spring within the central Virginia climate. They’re best considered fall planted, spring blooming for our area!

Brent and Becky’s

A company based out of Virginia that ships nationwide, Brent and Becky’s is a wonderful place to source perennials that are guaranteed to grow well in our area. They offer varieties that are often hard to find as well.  Favorites I’ve purchased from them include Japanese anemone (not to be confused with the anemones I referenced above…Japanese anemone can be planted now, will bloom in late summer, and come back in great quantity every year), Ostrich Fern, Veronica, and Phlox.  They’re also open to the public for shopping, and though I haven’t personally been, friends who’ve visited had only wonderful things to say about the experience!

Local Nurseries for shopping in person

Milmont Greenhouses

Milmont is a nursery located about 30 minutes outside of Charlottesville. It’s a beautiful drive and you’re rewarded with not only a beautiful view PLUS a goat feeding and petting area when you arrive - a wonderful way to make this part of a family day trip;) Of course the best part of Milmont though is its wonderful offerings for all budgets. Many perennials - including personal favorites geum, lavendar, rudbeckia, and foxglove - are offered in small four packs, something you almost never see in big box stores, and their selection of herbs and shrubs (including roses) is amazing. The people there are always kind and helpful as well!

Fifth Season Gardening

Located right in downtown Charlottesville, Fifth Season is another wonderful place to find small starts of perennials and herbs, as well as cover crops in small sizes (perfect for small gardens!). Other favorite offering include seeds from Southern Exposure Seed Exchange, compost and soil amendments from small and/or local businesses, bundles of bamboo stakes, and other fun gardening tools that you didn’t know you needed until you saw them there. Their website is also connected to their store, so you can make sure they have what you need before you go if you don’t have time to shop!

Blue Ridge Farmers Co-Op

Also located in downtown Charlottesville, this is my go to place for all things seed starting supplies (their prices on trays, cells, and stakes are the cheapest you’ll find anywhere!) and cover crop in bulk. They also have a wonderful selection of perennial plants and shrubs…and don’t forget to check out the discount corner: it’s always full of plants that are easily saved with a tiny bit of TLC.

Where to find incredible flower seeds

My favorite online shops for seeds (and a few small plants)

Let me just cut to the chase: 

As someone who has a really hard time picking favorites of anything in the plant world for fear of ostracizing something I don’t quite know exists, please know that there are many, many wonderful seed companies out there. And, as often is the case, some of the very best ones are tiny and maybe haven’t run across my radar just yet. 

However, the feeling of overwhelm that I felt when becoming serious about growing flowers is still very fresh. The options for where to source are vast, and often I’ve found that it’s the quieter companies (i.e. those not always ranking #1 in your search) that are the best.

So, if you’re looking for where to begin the hunt for seeds, this list is here to help.

Included in it are companies and flower farms that ship and check off the following boxes:

They offer healthy seeds with a high germination rate and no GMOs.

They provide excellent value for the investment.

Shopping with them is easy.

Their communication + customer service is top notch. 

Some may have a couple of quirks I’ll point out, but I promise any one on this list will get you going in the right direction on your growing journey!

Johnny's Selected Seeds

Located on a research farm in Maine, this company is serious about providing you with the very best seeds and bulbs.  They explain their offerings in extreme detail online or via print catalogue, and their seed packets offer the same explicit instructions. I’ve also appreciated their recent addition of imbedded videos into their shop, especially the ones they’ve trialed for overwintering in warmer zones like ours.  Johnny’s also offers wonderful tools and supplies, including frost cloth and raised beds.  The only thing you may find to be not-so-great is that their shipping costs are high. However, shipping is free for orders over $200, and they send coupons for free shipping on $50 from time to time if you sign up for their email list.

Baker Creek Heirloom Seeds

Known as the largest heirloom seed company in North America, this company offers unique varieties with the mission of saving them for generations to come. Their packaging makes me smile when the seeds arrive in the mail, and every order ships for free within the US! Sunflower Astra Rose Cream is an offering you can only find here that I’d highly recommend.

Select Seeds

Another company offering unique heirloom varieties that are hard to find anywhere else. I love that they say they specialize in “old fashioned” flowers, and it’s fun to read the history in many of their seed’s descriptions.  They also offer plants, including vines such as Purple Bell Vine that can often be difficult to germinate (after 2 years of failing, I’ve already got a couple of those plants on the way to enjoy this upcoming season). They sometimes take a few weeks to ship, but they always let you know ahead of time if that’s going to be the case.

Everwilde Farms

This is my go to seed company for ordering flowers in bulk to create my own flower mixes to cover large areas of ground. Their prices are low, but their quality isn’t, and I really appreciate how easy they make it to locate native flowers and grasses.  They are also the only company that I’m aware of that ship their seeds in what they call “gold vault” mylar packets. Those packets are water proof, which is wonderful for storing seeds if you don’t use them all at once. My favorite purchases from them have been Monarda, Milkweed, Phacelia, the single Poppy mix, and Money Plant (Lunaria).  

Southern Exposure Seed Exchange

A company based out of Virginia that focuses on offering seeds that thrive in the Southeast, so shopping with them gives you the confidence that what you’re purchasing will most likely grow well. Their catalog is slightly limited when it comes to flower offerings (i.e. you’re not going to find the most recent variety of flowers or newest shades here), but I personally find that it can be refreshing to have a shorter menu to sort through. It’s also charming that they ship seeds wrapped in pages of their timelessly classic printed seed catalog, and the packets are little works of art unto themselves.

3 Porch Farm

A micro flower farm located in Comer, Georgia, owned and operated by a husband and wife team that are wonderful about taking you along on the ins and outs of operating a flower farm. They offer seeds they harvest and package themselves, and my absolute favorites are forget-me-not Ms. Marilyn (bred by them!), and formosa lily seeds.  They also offer dahlias tubers (available now!) and heirloom mum cuttings (later in the spring).

I hope this helps you get a strong start on your seed sourcing for the growing season ahead, and check back next week for a post on where to source amazing perennial plants- including web shops and local central Virginia nurseries.

Hardy Annuals

It’s that wonderful time of the year where garden centers are stocked with fresh packets of seeds and bulbs, and the hope of spring in all its blooming goodness feels palpable.

It’s also that time of year where dreams of growing flowers heighten, garden plans are made, shopping trips occur, and all that excitement often can make us blind to the fact that just because all the seeds are offered in the store at the same time doesn’t mean they’re all going to grow and thrive by being planted at the suggested “after the last frost” date that’s most commonly put on packets.

Especially here in Virginia, where mild spring temps are short lived and heat and humidity often overtake us by late May.

Which is why it’s important to know that there is a lovely group of flowers called HARDY ANNUALS. 

Hardy = strong, and that’s what these flowers are….but only when it comes to enduring cold temps and a slight frost from time to time. 

Enduring heat and humidity? Forget about it.

Give hardy annuals just a few days of temps above 75 degrees and they will quickly start to wither and die. Like humans, all flowers have their strengths and weaknesses, and Virginia summers will always give a spotlight to those of hardy annuals. Believe me, I’ve tried to fight this fact, but heat will always overpower this group.

So does that mean you can’t grow them this year?

Not at all!

It just means that in order to give them a chance to really flourish and grow to their greatest potential, the ideal time to plant them is now (February -early March) or in the fall (preferred for the longest stems and healthiest plants but not required) in Zones 6-8.

So, now that you have the good news of knowing that you DON’T have to wait until April to plant everything, below is a summary of my five favorite hardy annuals that do well by being directly sown outdoors now here in Virginia! Unless the ground is frozen, it’s okay to place these seeds in the cold, wet earth. Remember, this is their time to actually live up to their “hardy” label! 

But one more thing before I share: taking the extra step of covering your seed patch with a piece of frost cloth from now until mid March will help aid seed germination and increase their chance of survival if a week of heavy freeze does land upon us. Also, make sure the seeds stay hydrated! Thankfully nature usually takes care of that in the winter, but take a peek every few days to be sure.

Alrighty, here we go, my five favorite hardy annuals that you can plant in late winter to enjoy an early spring harvest:

Bupleurum

Yellow and lime green florets sit upon wiry stems: perfect as a greenery piece for early spring arrangements.

Agrostemma

(also know as Corn Cockle)

Offered in shades of purple or white, these large flowers sit atop thin stems that blow elegantly in the wind : often the first hummingbirds of the season can be seen dipping their beaks into these tubular blooms.

Bachelor Button

Offered in a multitude of different shades, these pin cushion like blooms sit atop straight stems. Wonderful as a cut flower, dried flower, and also can be used as edible floral confetti.

Larkspur

Graceful, tall stems are adorned with many lovely rosettes. Offered in a range of colors, also wonderful for drying. Warning: larkspur is poisonous and seeds nor plants should ever be consumed.

Poppies

There are many varieties of poppies, but I’ve had the best luck with the variety Papaver Rhoeas (aka common poppies) when planting them in late winter - specifically the packets offered from Everwilde Farms called Single Poppy Seed Mix.

*One more thing to note: if you’d like to plant a mixed flower patch comprised of this list, simply mix up the first 4 flower varieties, sprinkle that mixture onto a bare/prepared patch of ground, and cover over with soil.  Then, sprinkle the poppy seeds as evenly as possible across the top of your growing patch. Do not cover those with soil but press them in lightly with your hand or foot. Cover with frost cloth, water over top so as to not displace the seeds, and keep on eye on it to maintain the moisture!

Holiday Gift Ideas for Flower Lovers and Growers

Tis the time of year where I start to receive messages from folks asking what I’d recommend giving to gardeners and flower lovers, and I definitely have a full list of favorite things to share…so I’m doing it right here. Please know that I am affiliated with none of the companies mentioned: I just love what they make and everything listed is something I personally use and enjoy!

Gifts for Gardeners and Aspiring Flower Growers

Hori Hori Garden Knife: this is my go to garden tool that is wonderful for planting and cutting through weeds and roots. There are many out there, but this one is my personal favorite that has stood the test of time and abuse (losing tools in the field is one of my specialties, and this one hasn’t rusted one bit even after many a rain showers).

Seeds from my favorites Renees Garden, Rare Seeds, and Select Seeds (or gift cards to any of those companies!) are always a fun gift to give. Varieties of cosmos, zinnias, and sunflowers are wonderful for beginners and can be planted right after the last frost.

Gardening guides and inspo books have always been gifts I’ve found to be so thoughtful, and I always love when the giver has signed the book so I think of that person every time I reference it!

The Complete Gardener by Monty Don, The Land Gardeners Cut Flowers, Cut Flower Garden, Emily Dickinson’s Gardening Life, and The Flower Yard are my current top 5 picks and ones I constantly read or simply browse through to enjoy the photos.

Barnes and Noble is linked below since I know they offer all 5, but please check in and support your local bookstores first if you can!

Gardening clothes are also a wonderful gift, and the two tried and true pieces of clothing I wear all through the season are Duluth Heirloom Gardening Bibs (spring/summer) and Carhartt Heavyweight Pocket Leggings (fall/winter). They’re water resistant, comfortable, and hold up well through many many washings. Plus they’re cute and well cut, which I think most can appreciate.

Lotions and gloves! Gardening and farming can be rough on the hands, and though there is no shame to have dirt under the fingernails, split fingertips hurt and can be a big distraction from the joy of growing. Giving a hand care package to a grower is a great gift idea! Nitrile gloves are my personal favorites to use (and you can find them in so many places), and the miracle lotion for me is from a favorite small company based out of Charleston, South Carolina called Old Whaling Company. Their lotion is magic and smells delicious (or not if you want to unscented type;), and it’s the reason that my hands stay smooth to the touch even if they are tattooed in dirt.

This holiday season I’ve created a gardener’s hand care kit featuring all of the above (and it ships within the United States!).

Gifts for Flower Arrangers


Tools to create a foam free flower arrangement, including flower frogs, vases, and floral snips, are wonderful for creating a gift bundle that can be enjoyed and utilized again and again.

If you’re searching for new items, these are some of my favorite companies to buy from:

If you’re hoping to gift vintage pieces, Etsy is always my favorite go to stop for flower frogs and vases, in addition to local antique shops and estate sales! I also have an offering of vintage vessels that ship within the US if you’re interested in taking a peek!

Last but not least, for all flower lovers, the gift of local flowers in the form of bouquet subscriptions is a wonderful idea! There are those that deliver (that’s me!), those that ship (3 Porch Farm in Georgia is a personal favorite for that route), and those who require pick up from their farm.

Whichever route you choose to go, gifting local flowers will always be the best because they’ll be the freshest, most unique, and most eco friendly bouquets you can give! Though it’s a gift that your recipient may need to wait for, the perk is that it will be such a wonderful weekly reminder of you in the spring.

Hope that guide was helpful, and please let me know if you have any other suggestions to add to the list!

Happy shopping and happy holidays!

Flower Garden Documentaries to Inspire

Over the past decade I’ve become a bit of a documentary nerd, and last winter - the one where it was cold and snowy and I could all stay inside without feeling guilty about missing out on nice weather - I binged on garden documentaries. 

None were nail biters or drama filled, but I walked away with new knowledge and inspiration after watching each one. There is a true art to telling someone’s story in a two hour or less span of time, and the four listed below (in no certain order) are ones that spoke to me the most:

PORTRAIT OF A GARDEN

This subtitled documentary follows one year in the life of a historic walled garden in the Netherlands. Not only does it speak to the patience and care it takes to bring a garden vision to life, but it also follows along the beautiful friendship between two men of different generations that are gardening alongside each other as mentor/mentee. The pace of this is the slowest on the list, but their peaceful and informative conversations were ones I couldn’t get enough of.

THE WELL PLACED WEED: THE BOUNTIFUL LIFE OF RYAN GAINEY

The title grabbed me immediately, because as someone who has a tolerance for weeds and even intertwines them in floral designs from time to time, I love to know I’m not alone in my slight affection for some of them.

But really the weeds take a backstage to Ryan Gainey in the film, a larger than life character that is an opinionated, unapologetic, creative, gifted, unique plant genius. Not to give any spoilers, but if you don’t know who Ryan is, the film has an ending you may not see coming.

BEATRIX FARRAND’S AMERICAN LANDSCAPES

This documentary follows the life of America’s first female landscape architect and her incredible work. Told by Lynden B. Miller, a present day renowned garden designer, you’re given a look into how Beatrix led the way for so many professional female plant experts and landscape designers today. In the film you’ll also get to tour many beautiful gardens in different locations around the country. Overall it’s a beautiful reminder of how much gardens and landscape design can become part of someone’s legacy and live on to tell their life story while benefitting the earth + society even after they’re gone. 

THE GARDENER

Hear the incredible story and tour the beautiful garden of Frank Cabot, a self taught horticulturalist who created one of the world’s most adored and respected gardens - spanning almost 20 acres - from scratch. There are several people interviewed throughout the film, but it’s Frank who so eloquently describes how gardening has impacted his life that makes you want to reach for a pen and start writing down his quotes.

Valentine's Day

“Whatever you do, please don’t get me red roses.” 

Do you ever have moments where a memory from long ago hits you, and you realize that perhaps the life path you’re on that seems like it came out of nowhere actually might have begun way before you ended up where you are?

That red roses comment is one I made to my new love at the time/now husband around the year 2000. We had met the previous December and I was feeling brave enough to give him the huge hint that I’d love a little something for Valentine’s Day…I just didn’t want the most common and popular gift.

At the time, it had nothing to do with he fact that red roses were completely out of season or flown thousands of miles to get here and sprayed with lots of chemicals and bred to look like stick straight flower statues that looked nothing like how roses grow in nature. 

No, no. 17 year old Lindsey had no clue about any of that.

I just really didn’t like them, and it had to do with the fact that  - me, the girl who was never a trend setter but also never a trend follower - was craving to get something others around me weren’t. Something different and unique, making it seemingly more special. 

Plus, if I’m being honest and yet now a little embarrassed to tell you…I may have been giving him a little bit of a challenge to see just how well he listened.

He passed the challenge then and continued to do so. 

That first year there were gorgeous lilies. 

The next, hydrangeas.

Then, there were tulips. Oh how those tulips stole my heart. So much so that they became the thing for years to come. Pink ones, red ones, yellow ones. It didn’t matter, I always loved them.

But perhaps the best tulip story comes from the one time they were almost a flop. 

It was my second year in college, his third. He and I went to schools two hours apart and February 14 falling on a weekday meant that we wouldn’t be spending the day together. 

A knock came at the door of my apartment mid day, just as the girls downstairs had come up to hang out with me and my roommates. A man handed over a long box addressed to me and a half mocking/half sweet “awwwww” resounded amongst the group.

I opened the box so excited to see what he’d delivered to me this year, gently pulled back the paper, and picked up a bouquet of 24 tulips that immediately flopped over in my hands. 

Those awwwwww turned to oh noooooooos.

I didn’t have the heart to tell him and didn’t feel like being the person calling to complain to a flower company on what was their craziest day of the year, so I put them in a vase and we jokingly put them in the middle of the table.  “It’ll be a Valentine’s Day centerpiece we’ll never forget” we said.

And it was. 

Then, the next morning, to my astonishment, I awoke to find that the tulips were standing up straight and beautiful!  Turns out tulips can do well living out of water but will go limp as they wait for rehydration. So just giving them a few hours in water brings them back to life! 

That ended up being my first lesson in flower conditioning, and another big lesson for both of us : if you want to have flowers delivered that wow immediately upon presentation, it’s best to go the local route.

Funny that it took about 15 years for those lessons to be used for more than just purchasing flowers, but here I am today, a farmer florist who still loves tulips and am so very proud to be offering a local Valentine’s Day delivery option that will ensure your flowers won’t be gifted as a sad flop that’s awaiting a hydration miracle.  

True to form, I’m still not into red roses and won’t be providing those, but this year there is the offering of gorgeous white and pink, American grown tulips mixed in with dried Larkspur grown at the farm and saved since last spring.  

In short, it’s a fresh and dried bouquet in one, of which half can be saved and enjoyed for months to come as a reminder of your Valentine’s Day! Whether it’s being gifted to yourself or someone else, the promise is that it will be delivered in a fresh state ready to be enjoyed immediately.

Also, it’s worth noting that proceeds from Valentine’s Day orders are going directly into planting more pollinator fields at the farm. It’s my way of offsetting the carbon emissions from having flowers shipped cross county, and it’s also a way to improve the ecosystem in which my flowers are grown.  The more pollinators come to the property the happier the flowers are, which means the quality of what I can provide continues to improve. 

If you’re interested in purchasing a bouquet or a bouquet + flower subscription bundle, head on to the link below - and thank you as always for your love and support of local/American grown flowers. 

Thoughts on Weddings

Before becoming a flower grower and floral designer, my professional life was that of a photographer! For seven years I had the privilege of documenting all the details and moments of numerous weddings, and now I get to create pieces that will forever be frozen in time by other photographers. Regardless of the role I’ve played, a sense of humble gratitude has always accompanied the reality that I have the honor of playing a role in the exciting day where two people begin a new chapter in their lives!

Turns out that the couples who were drawn to my photojournalistic style of photography have much in common with those who are drawn to my fresh-from-the-fields garden style designs: they’re kind hearted people who value authenticity over having to adhere to a certain image, they want the day to reflect who they are without giving much thought to what’s on trend, and they have an effortless style and grace.

For visual proof, below are snippets from weddings both large and small I had the honor to be a part of in 2021. Only booking a handful of events each season allows for real connection with the beautiful souls who will always be vivid in my memory!

Thank you to those who invited me into your special day last year, and I look forward to designing for new flower loving souls in 2022.

contributing photographers: Hannah Malloy Photography, Amative Creative, Erin Edgerton